Return-Path: Delivered-To: ad@garderiekiddykat.com Received: from cl-t211-187cl.majeunesse.ca by cl-t211-187cl.majeunesse.ca with LMTP id bkX0CpKRMmUuEQAAV5eKQw (envelope-from ) for ; Fri, 20 Oct 2023 10:41:22 -0400 Return-path: Envelope-to: ad@garderiekiddykat.com Delivery-date: Fri, 20 Oct 2023 10:41:22 -0400 Received: from mail-pj1-f53.google.com ([209.85.216.53]:45259) by cl-t211-187cl.majeunesse.ca with esmtps (TLS1.2) tls TLS_ECDHE_RSA_WITH_AES_128_GCM_SHA256 (Exim 4.96.2) (envelope-from ) id 1qtqgj-00017x-12 for ad@garderiekiddykat.com; Fri, 20 Oct 2023 10:41:22 -0400 Received: by mail-pj1-f53.google.com with SMTP id 98e67ed59e1d1-27d0251d305so650144a91.2 for ; Fri, 20 Oct 2023 07:41:00 -0700 (PDT) DKIM-Signature: v=1; a=rsa-sha256; c=relaxed/relaxed; d=gmail.com; s=20230601; t=1697812839; x=1698417639; darn=garderiekiddykat.com; h=to:subject:message-id:date:from:in-reply-to:references:mime-version :from:to:cc:subject:date:message-id:reply-to; bh=aG1eB+51bRB8PHWSwIK201rXZYikgyL97BhUPqyV0Fw=; b=Q76dyAmdCtXb1wUZNrndc2tYm/sZTmohpd2chmrQERVM4eMnMOXwUPMzgw3zCpb6PJ YiYMIJh/cnc9VSbdEOshXux0wmYvcoEIGMBDnDs9/uaKpK3xFOd77tBd7W4HqQeNvQsw obuI6PY5RmdNV9l7RlOAVEiPve32Ao2KOVfHgw02i9Zj8icK+kAin4A4kQqvwtID6XjQ cMZBNjSUktECtEl7z5jiw6FemhND+xCiMXzPyanTPojvjGUXGqtZKLOoyUOqX4Y3hQUp PGsMxI95fltsPbI10LShRre/HMxbW8bysqZauZfiMDV2ZjAOFgQw0bxUNZtuezutz1Jk XAXA== X-Google-DKIM-Signature: v=1; a=rsa-sha256; c=relaxed/relaxed; d=1e100.net; s=20230601; t=1697812839; x=1698417639; h=to:subject:message-id:date:from:in-reply-to:references:mime-version :x-gm-message-state:from:to:cc:subject:date:message-id:reply-to; bh=aG1eB+51bRB8PHWSwIK201rXZYikgyL97BhUPqyV0Fw=; b=Rnyq3jvceCyH4Gu0JU1Ph0IogmnY+eKbkGCTPbiYZc9Vi3F6L7PlmJIrLcO47ta+4n v48/C1sSZxr96MSSZz/6JccyUroDuKEmiQhW1yzP0wgrsELSMHPybZ1IJT7/8XtO2Hpy YLHl+S1rRWEje5J+gA0c0+j39osNX32tEbFn5i9jvIg5OHDrc3L6NOdE742TZbYdeXrY mQKTclhKRrJ3J6GN+DI2ZDWS9gl8JXOdvpOR2o8ZP3XxjjW+wm7s04X2qw46cLP9MRQL ZMcz40nnZmuMO1B+TQeq5PIz0ifb17rELGMT7f9msecH7QCM/E2cx+Fu3np1uxWyEhzM uN2A== X-Gm-Message-State: AOJu0Yyj+bh0eH4Td+ekuVrF77DcYF4lxgazUKtu3AFcVvOJbZoFKKeK 0VIN1ywjxZ1Wro+SuAhh2OasqLhn3cScGd0DoA2zBgLJ X-Google-Smtp-Source: AGHT+IGKWqsYM015e2QYwY+4agkyBKoiivXkPhMskJVF+n6RhVDPQV4du4M0blQvEtpkVvIxg7R4YyAaVlJnEH3D2oQ= X-Received: by 2002:a17:90a:5d91:b0:274:4e9b:7a1a with SMTP id t17-20020a17090a5d9100b002744e9b7a1amr1920689pji.44.1697812839252; Fri, 20 Oct 2023 07:40:39 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 References: <6ac5f06a250428807742233925daf089@garderiekiddykat.com> In-Reply-To: <6ac5f06a250428807742233925daf089@garderiekiddykat.com> From: Stephanie Rock Date: Fri, 20 Oct 2023 10:40:28 -0400 Message-ID: Subject: Re: Annyasha To: Marnie Dideles Content-Type: multipart/alternative; boundary="0000000000002dcd3b060826dbff" X-Spam-Status: No, score=-0.2 X-Spam-Score: -1 X-Spam-Bar: / X-Ham-Report: Spam detection software, running on the system "cl-t211-187cl.majeunesse.ca", has NOT identified this incoming email as spam. The original message has been attached to this so you can view it or label similar future email. If you have any questions, see root\@localhost for details. Content preview: Good day Marnie, The below is noted, thank you. Annyasha and I are on our way shortly as I have no vehicle this AM. Content analysis details: (-0.2 points, 5.0 required) pts rule name description ---- ---------------------- -------------------------------------------------- 0.0 FREEMAIL_FROM Sender email is commonly abused enduser mail provider [stephanie77rock[at]gmail.com] -0.0 SPF_PASS SPF: sender matches SPF record 0.0 HTML_MESSAGE BODY: HTML included in message -0.1 DKIM_VALID Message has at least one valid DKIM or DK signature 0.1 DKIM_SIGNED Message has a DKIM or DK signature, not necessarily valid -0.1 DKIM_VALID_AU Message has a valid DKIM or DK signature from author's domain -0.1 DKIM_VALID_EF Message has a valid DKIM or DK signature from envelope-from domain X-Spam-Flag: NO --0000000000002dcd3b060826dbff Content-Type: text/plain; charset="UTF-8" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable Good day Marnie, The below is noted, thank you. Annyasha and I are on our way shortly as I have no vehicle this AM. Stephanie On Fri, Oct 20, 2023 at 9:56 AM Marnie Dideles wrote: > Hi Stephanie, > > Hope you had a good week! > Firstly, I apologize for not replying to your email. I thought that the > conversation we had that morning had addressed your concerns. > > I know how unsettling it must have been to see Annyasha with a mark on > her face. As common as it is in childcare settings, it's never easy when > it happens to our child. So in a group where language is still > developing, we work hard to give the children the words to express > themselves in a positive way. We use short sentences that are easy to > model and remember: > "No, my turn" > "I'm using it" > "You're too close" > As well, I am there to be the facilitator of any conflicts that arise > and model positive resolutions with them. It's about giving them the > words to express their needs: "Can I have a turn when you're done?" > > Furthermore, we try to ensure that there are enough materials in the > class so as to prevent conflict over toys. Children under 5 are quite > ego-centric and so we exercise a lot of patience when they claim that > toys belong to them. Having enough materials allows us to redirect their > attention to something else that may diffuse the situation. > > Finally, we always do our best in providing adequate supervision at all > times. Things always have the possibility of occuring even in a split > second. But I hope that with all of the strategies mentioned, this > reassures you that such incidences will less likely occur. > > We thank you always for trusting us with the care of your child. Don't > hesitate to let me know if you'd like to have another conversation about > this. > > With warm regards, > > --- > Marnie Dideles; Assistant Director > > Garderie Kiddy Kat ad@garderiekiddykat.com > > On 2023-10-18 20:50, Mehwaish Raja wrote: > > Good Evening Stephanie, > > > > We hope you are doing well. > > > > I just got my kiddos in bed so I had a little time to respond. > > > > I thought Ms. Marnie addressed this in person and in email. I was > > trying to find the email but decided I can definitely ensure you that > > we were very taken back as well for what happened. > > > > Me and Ms. Marnie addressed the educators and shared some more > > insights on how to be proactive and to try their best to prevent this > > from happening. > > > > It certainly can be challenging at some points of the day where > > children at this age are either overwhelmed or cannot express > > themselves and they resort to physical reactions. > > > > We haven=E2=80=99t had such an incident in a while but are also working= very > > closely with the other child. > > > > I will ask Ms. Marni to elaborate more as she=E2=80=99s also the classr= oom > > educator and she can share some more insight. > > > > We really feel for annyasha. She=E2=80=99s a little trooper. > > > > Sorry for the delayed response from my part, I thought the team spoke > > with you. > > > > Wishing you a good restful night, > > > > Mehwaish Raja > > Director > > Garderie Kiddy Kat > > 514-685-7053 > > > > On Wed, Oct 18, 2023 at 8:29 PM Stephanie Rock > > wrote: > > > >> Good evening, > >> > >> I have yet to obtain a response on this, any comments ? > >> Rgds, > >> > >> Stephanie > >> > >> On Mon, Oct 16, 2023 at 5:38 PM Stephanie Rock > >> wrote: > >> > >> Good afternoon, > >> > >> I was told Annyasha was bitten today on her face ??! I understand > >> they are children but her eye is also very swollen ? > >> Which child is responsible for this ?, it seems extreme. > >> > >> I=E2=80=99m not comfortable with this situation as it is troubling. > >> > >> Please advise. > >> > >> Stephanie > >> > >> On Mon, Oct 16, 2023 at 10:35 AM Stephanie Rock > >> wrote: > >> Hi Marnie, > >> > >> Annyasha will be in shortly, as we had car trouble this morning. > >> > >> Thanks ! > >> > >> Stephanie > --0000000000002dcd3b060826dbff Content-Type: text/html; charset="UTF-8" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable
Good day Marnie,

The below is noted, thank you.

=
Annyasha and I are on our way shortly as I have no vehicl= e this AM.

Stephanie

On Fri, Oct 20, 2023 at 9:56 AM Marnie Dideles <ad@garderiekiddykat.com> wrote:
Hi Stephanie,

Hope you had a good week!
Firstly, I apologize for not replying to your email. I thought that the conversation we had that morning had addressed your concerns.

I know how unsettling it must have been to see Annyasha with a mark on
her face. As common as it is in childcare settings, it's never easy whe= n
it happens to our child. So in a group where language is still
developing, we work hard to give the children the words to express
themselves in a positive way. We use short sentences that are easy to
model and remember:
"No, my turn"
"I'm using it"
"You're too close"
As well, I am there to be the facilitator of any conflicts that arise
and model positive resolutions with them. It's about giving them the words to express their needs: "Can I have a turn when you're done?= "

Furthermore, we try to ensure that there are enough materials in the
class so as to prevent conflict over toys. Children under 5 are quite
ego-centric and so we exercise a lot of patience when they claim that
toys belong to them. Having enough materials allows us to redirect their attention to something else that may diffuse the situation.

Finally, we always do our best in providing adequate supervision at all times. Things always have the possibility of occuring even in a split
second. But I hope that with all of the strategies mentioned, this
reassures you that such incidences will less likely occur.

We thank you always for trusting us with the care of your child. Don't =
hesitate to let me know if you'd like to have another conversation abou= t
this.

With warm regards,

---
Marnie Dideles; Assistant Director

Garderie Kiddy Kat=C2=A0 ad@garderiekiddykat.com

On 2023-10-18 20:50, Mehwaish Raja wrote:
> Good Evening Stephanie,
>
> We hope you are doing well.
>
> I just got my kiddos in bed so I had a little time to respond.
>
> I thought Ms. Marnie addressed this in person and in email. I was
> trying to find the email but decided I can definitely ensure you that<= br> > we were very taken back as well for what happened.
>
> Me and Ms. Marnie addressed the educators and shared some more
> insights on how to be proactive and to try their best to prevent this<= br> > from happening.
>
> It certainly can be challenging at some points of the day where
> children at this age are either overwhelmed or cannot express
> themselves and they resort to physical reactions.
>
> We haven=E2=80=99t had such an incident in a while but are also workin= g very
> closely with the other child.
>
> I will ask Ms. Marni to elaborate more as she=E2=80=99s also the class= room
> educator and she can share some more insight.
>
> We really feel for annyasha. She=E2=80=99s a little trooper.
>
> Sorry for the delayed response from my part, I thought the team spoke<= br> > with you.
>
> Wishing you a good restful night,
>
> Mehwaish Raja
> Director
> Garderie Kiddy Kat
> 514-685-7053
>
> On Wed, Oct 18, 2023 at 8:29 PM Stephanie Rock
> <ste= phanie77rock@gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Good evening,
>>
>> I have yet to obtain a response on this, any comments ?
>> Rgds,
>>
>> Stephanie
>>
>> On Mon, Oct 16, 2023 at 5:38 PM Stephanie Rock
>> <stephanie77rock@gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>> Good afternoon,
>>
>> I was told Annyasha was bitten today on her=C2=A0 face ??! I under= stand
>> they are children but her eye is also very swollen ?
>> Which child is responsible for this ?, it seems extreme.
>>
>> I=E2=80=99m not comfortable with this situation as it is troubling= .
>>
>> Please advise.
>>
>> Stephanie
>>
>> On Mon, Oct 16, 2023 at 10:35 AM Stephanie Rock
>> <stephanie77rock@gmail.com> wrote:
>> Hi Marnie,
>>
>> Annyasha will be in shortly, as we had car trouble this morning. >>
>> Thanks !
>>
>> Stephanie
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