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Wishing you a beautiful day, Ms. Mehwaish On Thu, Feb 22, 2024 at 10:38=E2=80=AFAM Aicha Chtourou wrote: > Hi Ms. Marnie, > > I know we discussed to pick him up after lunch but I am only able to pick > up Yusuf at 1:30pm today. I mentioned to him that he can stay beside the > window with a book to avoid the room being dark. He is okay with that. > Please let me know if we can try this today? If at any point he has a > meltdown, please call me and I=E2=80=99ll pick him up. 514-260-0641. > > Let me know, > Thank you > > ------------------------------ > *From:* Aicha Chtourou > *Sent:* February 21, 2024 11:41 PM > *To:* Mehwaish Raja > *Cc:* Marnie Dideles > *Subject:* Re: Concerns re: Yusuf > > Hi Mehwaish & Ms Marnie, > > I apologize for the delay in response. > Based on the feedback given, I will keep him at kiddy Kat for now and see > how he progresses. Of course we understand if it doesn=E2=80=99t workout = long term, > that we will be liable for any cancellation fees/admin fees. We want this > to work. > > We just want to make sure that he progresses and we=E2=80=99ll do our bes= t on our > end to prepare him each week for Tuesday/Thursday. > > Thank you for your understanding and accommodation. Looking forward to > seeing you tomorrow. > ------------------------------ > *From:* Mehwaish Raja > *Sent:* February 21, 2024 12:31 PM > *To:* Aicha Chtourou > *Cc:* Marnie Dideles > *Subject:* Re: Concerns re: Yusuf > > Good Morning Aicha, > > We hope this email finds you well. > > Can you please confirm if Yusuf will come tomorrow (as we can make the > adjustment to his schedule effective immediately). > > Let us know. > > Best regards, > > Ms. Mehwaish > > On Tue, Feb 20, 2024 at 1:01=E2=80=AFPM Marnie Dideles > wrote: > > Hi Aicha, > > Hope this email finds you well! > So I had a conversation with Mehwaish in regards to your concerns with > Yusuf and his adjustment here at daycare. I think given the nature of > his temperament and the frequency of his days it's understandable that > it would take him a bit longer to feel fully comfortable here. I do > think that this is a good fit for him considering the size of the center > as well as the group size of the class. After reflecting on your > previous email a bit, I feel that perhaps we extended his day a little > too soon. I know Mehwaish mentioned a morning program that right now is > a pilot project for families who are interested. However we do oblige > them to do 5 mornings per week. I can attach the visitors package we > have that includes the fee structure for the morning program. I think > what would be best for you and Yusuf right now is to keep your 2 days at > 60$/day but to keep his days short, i.e. pick him up after lunch at > 12:30. Let's do that for a good month or so and see how well he gets > used to it. Drop offs might be easier since he knows it's a shorter time > and he doesn't have to worry right now about staying on his bed. Again, > because he only comes twice a week, his integration will be slower than > a child who comes more often. Children thrive with a predictable routine > which is why we were going with 2 consecutive days (Monday-Tuesday). > Mehwaish mentioned you wanted to change to Tuesday-Thursday, which is > not ideal but if that's what you need, we will of course support Yusuf > through his integration. Once he truly feels comfortable here, we can > talk about making his days longer. > > As a whole, we have to be patient with him as he navigates this new > aspect of his life. Knowing his temperament now, it's clear that he's > someone who needs more time to find his bearings and feel comfortable in > a new space on his own. It's a tough time at his age. He's still > learning about himself as a person and that includes who he is as a > separate entity from you as his mom (the main caregiver) and trying to > make sense of the world in that way. On top of that, he's navigating > emotions, and independence, and mastering cognitive and physical skills. > It's a lot for a kid! But part of our role is to help build their > resilience through love and connection. We help them believe that they > can do hard things! I know Mehwaish mentioned to you that I do some > parent coaching on the side. If you want to book me for a 30mins > discovery call, you can email me at marnie.gracefullfamily@gmail.com and > we can go from there. > > Hope this reassures you a little bit and helps you to make a good > decision for your family. Regardless of what you decide, we are here for > you! > > With warm regards, > > -- > Marnie Dideles; Assistant Director > > Garderie Kiddy Kat ad@garderiekiddykat.com > > > > -- > FOUNDER & DIRECTOR > GARDERIE KIDDY KAT INC. > 7 RUE DU CENTRE COMMERCIAL > ROXBORO H8Y-2N9 > www.garderiekiddykat.com > 514-685-7053 > > > > --=20 FOUNDER & DIRECTOR GARDERIE KIDDY KAT INC. 7 RUE DU CENTRE COMMERCIAL ROXBORO H8Y-2N9 www.garderiekiddykat.com 514-685-7053 --000000000000ba3d6e0611fa7b73 Content-Type: text/html; charset="UTF-8" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable
Salam Aicha,=C2=A0

I have informed Ms. = Marni. She will pass along the message to Ms. Taz too. If his having a chal= lenging time Ms. Marnie will call you.=C2=A0

We= 9;ll be in touch. Wishing you a beautiful day,=C2=A0

Ms. Mehwaish=C2=A0

On Thu, Feb 22, 2024 at 10:38=E2=80=AFAM Aicha C= htourou <aichachtourou@hotm= ail.com> wrote:
Hi Ms= . Marnie,

I kno= w we discussed to pick him up=C2=A0after lunch but I=C2=A0am only able to pick up Yusuf at 1:30pm today. I mentioned to him that he can= stay beside the window with a book to avoid the room being dark.=C2=A0He is okay with that. Please let me know if we can try this today? If at any point he has a melt= down, please call me and I=E2=80=99ll pick him up. 514-260-0641.

Let me know,=C2=A0
Thank you

From:= Aicha Chtourou <aichachtourou@hotmail.com>
Sent: February 21, 2024 11:41 PM
To: Mehwaish Raja <garderiekidykat@gmail.com>
Cc: Marnie Dideles <ad@garderiekiddykat.com>
Subject: Re: Concerns re: Yusuf
=C2=A0
Hi Mehwaish & Ms Marnie,=C2=A0

I apologize for the delay in response.=C2=A0
Based on the feedback given, I will keep him at kiddy Kat for now and = see how he progresses. Of course we understand if it doesn=E2=80=99t workou= t long term, that we will be liable for any cancellation fees/admin fees. W= e want this to work.

We just want to make sure that he progresses and we=E2=80=99ll do our = best on our end to prepare him each week for Tuesday/Thursday.

Thank you for your understanding and accommodation. Looking forward to= seeing you tomorrow.
From: Mehwaish Raja <garderiekidykat@gmail.com>
Sent: February 21, 2024 12:31 PM
To: Aicha Chtourou <aichachtourou@hotmail.com>
Cc: Marnie Dideles <ad@garderiekiddykat.com>
Subject: Re: Concerns re: Yusuf
=C2=A0
Good Morning Aicha,

We hope this=C2=A0email finds you well.=C2=A0

Can you please confirm if Yusuf will come tomorrow (as we can make the= adjustment=C2=A0to his schedule effective immediately).

Let us=C2=A0know.

Best regards,

Ms. Mehwaish=C2=A0

On Tue, Feb 20, 2024 at 1:01=E2=80=AFPM Marnie Dideles <= ;ad@garderieki= ddykat.com> wrote:
Hi Aicha,

Hope this email finds you well!
So I had a conversation with Mehwaish in regards to your concerns with
Yusuf and his adjustment here at daycare. I think given the nature of
his temperament and the frequency of his days it's understandable that =
it would take him a bit longer to feel fully comfortable here. I do
think that this is a good fit for him considering the size of the center as well as the group size of the class. After reflecting on your
previous email a bit, I feel that perhaps we extended his day a little
too soon. I know Mehwaish mentioned a morning program that right now is a pilot project for families who are interested. However we do oblige
them to do 5 mornings per week. I can attach the visitors package we
have that includes the fee structure for the morning program. I think
what would be best for you and Yusuf right now is to keep your 2 days at 60$/day but to keep his days short, i.e. pick him up after lunch at
12:30. Let's do that for a good month or so and see how well he gets used to it. Drop offs might be easier since he knows it's a shorter tim= e
and he doesn't have to worry right now about staying on his bed. Again,=
because he only comes twice a week, his integration will be slower than a child who comes more often. Children thrive with a predictable routine which is why we were going with 2 consecutive days (Monday-Tuesday).
Mehwaish mentioned you wanted to change to Tuesday-Thursday, which is
not ideal but if that's what you need, we will of course support Yusuf =
through his integration. Once he truly feels comfortable here, we can
talk about making his days longer.

As a whole, we have to be patient with him as he navigates this new
aspect of his life. Knowing his temperament now, it's clear that he'= ;s
someone who needs more time to find his bearings and feel comfortable in a new space on his own. It's a tough time at his age. He's still learning about himself as a person and that includes who he is as a
separate entity from you as his mom (the main caregiver) and trying to
make sense of the world in that way. On top of that, he's navigating emotions, and independence, and mastering cognitive and physical skills. It's a lot for a kid! But part of our role is to help build their
resilience through love and connection. We help them believe that they
can do hard things! I know Mehwaish mentioned to you that I do some
parent coaching on the side. If you want to book me for a 30mins
discovery call, you can email me at marnie.gracefullfamily@gmail.com and
we can go from there.

Hope this reassures you a little bit and helps you to make a good
decision for your family. Regardless of what you decide, we are here for you!

With warm regards,

--
Marnie Dideles; Assistant Director

Garderie Kiddy Kat=C2=A0 ad@garderiekiddykat.com


--
FOUNDER & DIRECTOR
GARDERIE KIDDY KAT INC.
7 RUE DU CENTRE COMMERCIAL
ROXBORO H8Y-2N9





--
FOUNDER & DIRECTOR
GARDERIE KIDDY KAT INC.
7 RUE DU CENTRE COMMERCIAL
ROXBORO H8Y-2N9
514-685-7053



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